When We Don't Get The Love We Think We Deserve

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

"We accept the love we think we deserve."

The sentence swirls in almost every girl's head, would be "If he loves me enough, he would do it...". Most of us get disappointed by our partners from time to time and we often conclude that they do not love us enough. The truth is we all want to be loved the way we want it. 
Example, if you show love by texting your partner all day, while what your partner really want is you being physically present, he/she won't feel loved even if it takes a whole chunk of you ( according to your own standards) to text. 
In essence, to really love is to love your partner in ways they want to be loved. Aligning our perception with the perception of our loved ones, requires constant self reminder and selflessness. It is pointless to put in 113% only for the other party to feel 5%. 
Not forgetting that we have to actively seek out other forms of love that we took for granted and did not realise that they are actually acts of love. It is time to let our givers will feel appreciated and let our hearts be filled with thankfulness.

It's always the 2 way thing, isn't it?

Some taken by: @winnielim710 and @peijunxp

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